What Habit Do You Want To Break?
Over time I have developed a lot of habits. Some good some bad. It seems so much easier to change the good ones than the bad ones.
It would probably be a good for me to list all my bad habits so that I can assess just how much they impact my life in a negative way. Then I could decide what one(s) to change that would improve things either physically, emotionally or mentally.
I have read a great deal about changing habits and it appears that trying to change too many at one time leads to failure. It is best to focus on only one change at a time. People want to see a lot of changes real soon. To succeed you need to take the long view. You should look at it not at what change I change in a month but what can I change in a year. Also, it takes anywhere from 3-6 weeks for a habit change to become a habit. If you look at it 12 months down the road, that means you change 8-12 habits. That is a lot of change in a person.
The people around you can have a large effect on the success of a habit change. It is critical that you have a strong support group. Change is not easy. You will have good and bad days. You just need to begin each day anew and forget what happen before.
The habit I fight to change is my sugar intake. It is a challenge. At work I am much better at walking away from the bad stuff people bring in. At home is where I struggle. I would like to have nothing in the house to tempt me, however, I am not the only one there. I can’t force my change on others.
I am at war with sugar. Some days I win, some days it does. But I will fight it each day until I can be sure I always win.
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