Can We Come Together?
I am trying to think of a scenario
where we as a country can be more civil to each other. We can have disagreements, major ones, but
does that mean we can’t treat each other with respect?
Can a President or political leaders
actually lead us toward that? I believe that
is one of their major jobs. We are never
going to have full civility between all.
One, there are too many people involved and two, the fringes at each end
of the political spectrum are so hard core that there is no compromise with
them. They hate each other with such
intensity. The good news I think is they
only represent 10-15% of the population.
Yes, they may be the most vocal and disruptive, but the majority can
come together to improve the country.
How do we start? At the local level,
have a lot of town hall meetings and community events so people can engage with
each other. The more people meet face to
face the better. It is too easy to hide
behind the internet to throw vitriol at someone. If you have to do it to their face it is
another thing. If the argument gets heated, be the one who
maintains your cool and remains respectful.
It is pointless to go on if both
sides ratchet up the volume and name calling.
Be the better person. Listen,
really listen to the other person. As
the saying goes; “try first to understand than to be understood.”
Ask the person to explain why their
position is better and not just why yours is bad. Ask them if there is a compromise they are
willing to explore. Have them explain how
gridlock solves anything.
As much as I want political leaders
to lead in civility, I don’t see that happening. It has to be a grassroots process that builds
town by town, county by county and then state by state. It can happen. I will do my part to support and extend it.
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