Wednesday, January 31, 2018

31 Jan 2018 Why Do Differing Opinions Matter?

Why do differing opinions matter?

It is critical in a democracy the multiple viewpoints are presented, discussed, argued and accepted. No one person or organization has all the answers or ideas, one of the sad things I have seen in the USA is people hating others who disagree with them. Why would you only want to surround yourself with people who only think like you, but more importantly, does it really need to rise to the level of hate if someone has a different view?

The polarization of speech needs to be address, there are examples in US history where people have vastly different views, but they were close friends. This was true on politics, now it appears a matter of honor to not only disagree with someone but also question his/her integrity. College campuses used to be the great bastion in a diverse discuss, now they are safe zones where someone can go to not to be offended by free speech.  Articulating ones values and rights is whtt free speech is protected.

To me what seems to get lost is that it protects not only your speech but also that of those who oppose your position. You have to fully address the concept. This means tolerating the speech you find offensive. Just because someone or some groups said something so repulsive to you, that does not mean it will go into some law you have to live with. If radical Islam had their way politically you wouldn’t have free speech, but in a democracy is critical that radical Islam has to be able to voice their views.

Here is a crucial point, voicing your views and acting on them are two very different things. I would defend with my life the right that radical Islam has to voice their views, I will also give up my life to fight them if they try to implement these views. Radical Islam is an extreme example of free speech. Look at politicians, has anyone stated a position so vile that you actually hate them? I have vastly different views with politicians depending on the issue. However, I can’t say I actually hate one. I might not like someone, but hate is a whole different level. I can also see myself being friendly with a politician even if we have major differences.

Now let’s take this to the personal level. How inclusive are you in your circle of friends? You have group think? I would find that incredible boring. I have friends who I argue with very intensively, but I still love them and value our friendship. Do I have a defensive limit I use to determine when someone’s views are so unacceptable to me that we can’t remain friends?  Yes, I do. Are there people who had views that I totally despise? Yes, absolutely, but I don’t waste my energy on them until their views will prevent mine. Freedom of speech has to be defended at all cost and a democracy can’t exist without it.

Embrace differences with your friends. You are not always right, they are not always wrong.  Enjoy the opportunity to have the experience of discord.  There are millions of people in the world who do not have freedom of speech and would give anything for it.



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